Modern Marriage

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Yi-Long
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BiscLimpkit wrote:I fear that if I don't find a nice desi woman (or any woman tbh) soon, then he will. I don't trust his judgement. :?
Why dont you trust his judgement? What's wrong with your mother?
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That was a harsh one. Let's keep the mommies out.
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thelostdragon wrote:That was a harsh one. Let's keep the mommies out.
I didnt mean it harsh at all. He says he doesnt trust his father's judgement, and obviously the father picked the mother... so that's why I asked. It wasnt meant as a joke...
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Oh... ok. LOL! Don't wanna say what I thought you meant! :D
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Nah very funny Yi. :D I always say you're one of the funniest dudes on this forum.
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Mordib wrote:a) i feel that if my partner needs the reassurance of a piece of paper that I want to be with her forever then somethings wrong and b) As far as I know even civil ceremonies require you to swear before god, so the whole thing for a non believer is kind of one big lie!
a) Well, I don't know how it's done over in Irn Bru, but over here there are still civil rights that are only valid for married couples. Simply being married simplifies a lot of stuff (like not having to re-register you vehicle if your spouse dies! and that's about $800... just for a paper change...) --- then again I live in a country where the government loves to take all my money... and then some... only when you retire is there any negative side effects to being married --- as my mom realized when "they" cut her disability payment when my pa retired from work. Some strange rules there. (If they were NOT married she would still get the same amount... and my pa would get more from the pension fund aswell... oh well) ...

as for b) ... I can't swear to it as I've never done it, but I'm pretty sure that _any_ god has NOTHING to do with a civil ceremony over here. Because if it did I'm darn sure I'd have heard about it from all the "non-believers" out there. (They are pretty "loud" about issues like this over here... when they must, they have pretty much all they need I think to live life the way they want...)
So long, and thanks for all the fish!
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In Germany a marriage also gives you advantages in the tax department.
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Wow!!!, after spending a week over my inlaws, how this thread has changed... Need to read it over..

Anyway, like I had mentioned before, I have finally uploaded the images for my wedding:

Registry Pictures
http://www.nadcom.co.uk/nrasool/wedding/registry/

Nikha Pictures (Islamic Marriage)
http://www.nadcom.co.uk/nrasool/wedding/nikha/

Walima Pictures (After Party)
http://www.nadcom.co.uk/nrasool/wedding/walima/

I haven't uploaded the mehidi parties, but will do soon :)
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thelostdragon wrote:In Germany a marriage also gives you advantages in the tax department.
Like what?
I might only drop in and out but I'm still your admin... spiritually :P
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Nice pics :)
I might only drop in and out but I'm still your admin... spiritually :P
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Markgway wrote:Maybe if Muslims drank alcohol they'd be too pissed to blow themselves up?
Jeez Mark that really is black humour, even by your standards.
slasher13 wrote:Registry Pictures
http://www.nadcom.co.uk/nrasool/wedding/registry/

Nikha Pictures (Islamic Marriage)
http://www.nadcom.co.uk/nrasool/wedding/nikha/

Walima Pictures (After Party)
http://www.nadcom.co.uk/nrasool/wedding/walima/
Nice pics. Your wife is cute :wink: , as is the woman in blue with long dark hair (please say she's not really young :D)

That party looks like lots of fun. I'd love to go to an Indian or Muslim wedding. Actually I think I've been to an Indian wedding but I was very young so can't remember much of it.
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bradavon wrote:Nice pics. Your wife is cute :wink: , as is the woman in blue with long dark hair (please say she's not really young :D)

That party looks like lots of fun. I'd love to go to an Indian or Muslim wedding. Actually I think I've been to an Indian wedding but I was very young so can't remember much of it.
Ahh thanks Brad, the woman in blue is my cousin, she is one year older than me, and I'm 29 years old. :)

Yeah the party was great, everyone really enjoyed it alot. Good to see you are back by the way :)
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Your cousin is quite cute ;) The woman in dark blue?