I know, but now people are acting like the kid would be very AGAINST having sex, while the old woman would be 'okay' with it.bradavon wrote:Except Mark never said having sex with an 82 year old would be against her will. If she was too elderly to give consent then yes it would be rape BUT she would be old enough to be able to understand things by then.Morally, it's 'rape'. But so is having sex with an 82 year old woman against her will. So are we saying it's OK to 'rape' an 82 year old woman over a 13 year old girl!?
So either the choice is between having sex with an old woman against her will, and having sex with a 13 year old against her will... OR the choice of having sex with a 13 year old who 'understands' it, and a 82 year old who understands it.
Obviously there is a big difference, although tbh I do feel that we in the western world are also making a little big TOO much of a big deal about sex and virginity and age etc. In the end, sex is a pretty normal act. Ofcourse, we would prefer it if everyone's first time would be at an age they're ready for it, and it's enjoyable etc... but also let's not pretend like having sex a bit too early is damaging for the rest of you're life.I completely agree except there is a big difference about talking about sex and doing it. I definitely agree more parents should talk to their kids about sex.People really think kids become more and more stupid, the older they themselfs become... but when you really have a normal discussion about serious stuff with a kid, a kid is usually smarter and more mature than many 'adults'.
I'm not talking about RAPE now, but about having sex when you might not be really 100% ready for it yet.
Cause many girls have sex and later feel they should have waited a bit longer. That's a shame and too bad, but it's not the worst tragedy possible in the world.